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“Teaching the things
concerning the
BRIDESHIP AND
SONSHIP
Part 2
Originally
published in June 1971
THE COMING OF
THE BRIDEGROOM
The scriptures teach that Christ is
coming as a Bridegroom and also as a King. There is a definite distinction
between a Bridegroom and a King. Christ is to reign as KING over all the
earth. “And the LORD shall be KING over ALL THE EARTH: in that day shall
there be one Lord, and His name one” (Zech. 14:9). “And the seventh angel
sounded; and there were great voices in heaven, saying, The KINGDOMS OF THIS
WORLD are become the KINGDOMS OF THE LORD, and of His CHRIST; and He shall
reign…” (Rev. 11:15). But Christ is NOT coming as Bridegroom over all the
earth! He is coming as a Bridegroom ONLY unto His BRIDE!
The scriptures make some clear
distinctions between the coming of the KING and the coming of the BRIDEGROOM.
These facts are overlooked by most Christians because they know nothing of the
Bridegroom and therefore do not know the nature of His coming or where or how
to meet Him. Let us seriously consider together what the Spirit would reveal to
us from the scriptures concerning the coming of the KING and the coming of the
BRIDEGROOM.
1.
Wherever the coming of the Bridegroom and King are mentioned together,
Christ’s manifestation as Bridegroom is set forth FIRST and His coming as King
is placed SECOND. This occurs in Revelation chapter 19. In verses 7-9 we read
of His Bridegroom manifestation: “Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour
to Him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and His wife hath made herself
ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean
and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of the saints. And he saith
unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of
the Lamb!” Then in verses 11-16 Christ comes as King: “And I saw heaven opened,
and behold a white horse; and He that sat upon him was called Faithful and
True, and in righteousness doth He judge and MAKE WAR (doesn’t sound much like
a wedding feast, does it?). And out of His mouth goeth a SHARP SWORD, that with
it He should smite the nations: and He shall rule them with a rod of iron: and
He treadeth the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of Almighty God (still
doesn’t sound like a good way to spend your honeymoon, does it?). And He
hath on His vesture and on His thigh a name written, KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF
LORDS.”
Another example is in Matthew chapter 25. In verses 1-13 is a detailed
explanation of events surrounding the manifestation of the BRIDEGROOM. In part
we read, “THEN shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which
took their lamps, and WENT
2.
The coming of the Bridegroom is a SPIRITUAL coming forth of the Lord
unto His elect Bride – while the coming of Christ as King is the literal,
bodily return of the Resurrected, Ever-living, MAN Christ Jesus to establish
His Kingdom here on this earth! Of course His Bride and the Sons of God shall
share in all the glory and administration of that glorious Kingdom! Study
closely Revelation chapter 21 concerning the NEW JERUSALEM, which IS the BRIDE
of Christ, and you will see that the Bride of Christ is the true QUEEN
OF HEAVEN who shall, as part of the great GOD FAMILY – together with God the
Father and Jesus Christ the Son, and with ALL the SONS OF GOD – REIGN over ALL
THIS PLANET, yes indeed, over the whole vast universe of God!
It is evident that the marriage feast referred to In Revelation 19:9 is
NOT a physical, natural feast. When the scriptures refer to “eating” or to
“feasts” in relation to God’s SPIRITUAL PEOPLE they never speak in carnal terms
of natural partaking of food. For instance, “Thou preparest a table before me
in the presence of mine enemies… my cup runneth over” (Ps. 23:5). “As newborn
babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby” (I Peter
2:2). “I have fed you with milk, and not with meat…” (I Cor. 3:2). “For the
Lamb which is in the midst of the throne shall feed them, and shall lead
them unto living fountains of waters” (Rev. 7:17). “FEED the flock of God which
is among you…” (I Peter 5:2). “Therefore let us KEEP THE FEAST, not with old
leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened
bread of sincerity and truth” (I Cor. 5:8).
Some people have fancied that at the marriage supper of the Lamb we
would literally be floating around on top of the clouds somewhere eating
porkchops or some other such foolishness. The literal feasts that God gave to
The third great feast of the Israelite year was TABERNACLES… and startling
as it might seem, THIS is the FEAST that REMAINS to be FULFILLED! TABERNACLES
is called “the feast of ingathering, which is in the END OF THE YEAR” (Ex.
3.
Now let us also note that the coming of the Bridegroom is for the
purpose of bringing about the consummation of the marriage – bringing the Bride
into her ultimate
On the contrary, the coming of Jesus
as KING shall be the literal return of THE MAN CHRIST JESUS. “And while they
looked steadfastly toward heaven as He went up, behold, two men stood by them
in white apparel; Which also said, Ye men of
HOW THE BRIDEGROOM SHALL COME
We are told in Matthew chapter 25
that in this, our day, shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins.
Virgins are pure and undefiled: not the common run of Christians who have
defiled themselves with every kind of flesh and lover-idol they can find. These
ten virgins took their lamps and went forth to meet the Bridegroom. Not very
many saints are doing that! Not very many know who or what the Bridegroom is,
and therefore do not know where or how to meet Him. Not knowing who or what He
is, they therefore cannot know how to GO FORTH to meet Him! Most Christians,
unfortunately, are busily preparing themselves to go “up” to meet the
Bridegroom. But all their stir and fuss will be in vain. For you do not go “up”
to meet the Bridegroom. All of God’s true saints shall indeed go “up” to
receive and welcome to THIS PLANET the KING when He comes. But in order to meet
the BRIDEGROOM, one must go “out.” “Go ye ‘OUT’ to meet Him!” Matt. 25:6. The
only way to go “out” to meet Him is to “come out” of every fleshly, carnal and
defiling thing that separates us from HIS FULNESS!
In II Corinthians 6:16-17 we are
told, “And what agreement hath the
A clear picture of this great truth
is recorded in Revelation chapters 17 and 18. In chapter 17 we read of a woman
who is NOT the Bride of Christ, but a lewd woman, a HARLOT. She is no more than
the great systems of organized religion (popular Christianity) which have not
followed the truth and the Spirit of God but have corrupted their ways and
committed spiritual adultery with this world order of things. They have defiled
themselves with every fleshly lover-idol they can find and have left the center
of the road (the pure walk in the Spirit) and slithered off into the ditch
there to slop and flounder around in error, deception, carnality, and ignorance
of every sort. This woman in Revelation 17 and her daughters are
CHURCHES – Harlot Churches who have not kept their virgin purity before the
Lord but have chosen to walk in their own fleshly, man-made, carnal ways. In
Revelation chapter 14 the 144,000 are pictured as “virgins” who are not defiled
with women – with man-made, man-formed, man-organized, man-named,
man-controlled, man-propagated, apostate, government chartered, babylonish
churches. They FOLLOW THE LAMB withersoever HE GOETH, and not human leaders and
institutions and programs which have ever SUPPLANTED the pure walk in the
Spirit of God!
So now let us HEAR the cry that goes
forth in Rev. 18:4: “And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, COME
OUT OF HER, My people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye
receive not of her plagues.” Do WHAT? Come ‘OUT’ of her! Not “go UP” but come
OUT! “Go ye OUT to MEET HIM!” “Come OUT from among them… and I will receive
you!” You will never go “up” to meet Christ as your Bridegroom. There is only
ONE WAY, and that is to come OUT of every carnal, Babylonish, fleshly and
devilish thing to MEET and FOLLOW the Lamb! No wonder we read in Rev. 18:23
that AFTER God’s chosen ones have COME OUT of the Babylonish harlot system, God
says of Babylon, “And the light of a candle (the little light that is
left in popular religion) shall shine NO MORE at all in thee; and the VOICE OF
THE BRIDEGROOM and of the BRIDE shall be heard NO MORE AT ALL IN THEE!”
Let me here issue one word of
caution. Many think that because they have come out of some Babylonish church
and have forsaken the foolishness of man-made human organizations that this in
itself qualifies them to be a part of God’s end-time Body which shall be
brought into God’s fulness. This is NOT SO! For there were TEN virgins who WENT
OUT to meet the Bridegroom but only FIVE entered into the feast! Five of these
virgins were foolish, and while they indeed WENT OUT – they only had a measure
of oil (Holy Spirit), the same measure they always had. They did not go on to
possess a FULL MEASURE – they had not themselves entered into the FULLNESS of
God that is required in THIS LAST HOUR! And REMEMBER! Five out of every ten
virgins BELONG TO THIS CLASS!
THE ULTIMATE PURPOSE OF BRIDESHIP
A wife is one who has reached full
maturity, one who has given herself completely and unreservedly for her lover,
one who has lost her own name and identity to take HIS. She has left all to
follow him. The RESULT of such a
In the 3rd chapter of
Genesis, we have an account of the temptation and fall of Adam and Eve with
God’s judgement and also promise of a DELIVERER to come forth from the woman.
The fifteenth verse reads, “And I will put enmity between thee (Satan) and the
woman and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head and thou
shalt bruise his heel.” We have here the first promise that a SEED should come
forth of the woman that would conquer and DE-THRONE Satan, and other scriptures
tell us that this coming seed will liberate from Satan’s power ALL of God’s
creation. The hidden purpose of God in making Adam and Eve husband and wife was
the bringing forth eventually of a SEED, a SON, to bruise Satan’s HEAD.
But who was to be THE WOMAN and who
was to be THE SEED of whom God spoke? Let us SEE!
It is interesting to note in
Ephesians 5:30-32, “We are members of His body, of His flesh, and of His bones.
FOR THIS CAUSE shall a man leave His father and mother, and shall be joined
unto His wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I
SPEAK CONCERNING CHRIST AND THE CHURCH.” Jesus spoke of this same great truth
when He said to some Pharisees: “Have ye not read, that He which made them at
the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man
leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be
one flesh?” Now WHO, according to Jesus’ VERY OWN WORDS, made the statement way
back there in the beginning, that “for this cause shall a man leave
father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and twain shall be one flesh?”
WHO made that statement IN THE BEGINNING? Jesus said, “Have ye not read that HE
THAT MADE THEM SAID…” GOD was the one who said this! And yet, in the Genesis
account we read, “And ADAM said, This is now bone of my bones… therefore shall
a man leave his father… and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one
flesh.” On the surface it appears that we have here a contradiction – that
Moses tells us that Adam spoke these words, and Christ tells us that God spoke
them. But the TRUTH is, of course, that Adam spoke the words – but he did so in
the SPIRIT OF PROPHECY! So, since he spoke by the Spirit of Prophecy it was in
reality GOD who was speaking through Adam! And, of course, since Adam
was speaking prophetically, MUCH MORE IS INVOLVED in his statement than the
mere setting forth of the human husband-wife relationship. It is TRUE that a
natural man should leave his father and mother and cleave only unto his wife –
but this is only a type of what God was REALLY SAYING! This prophecy was
pointing forward through the ages to THAT ONE – the LAST ADAM – who would leave
the glory of the Father and lay aside all the splendor of Deity that He might
come and choose a human-divine Bride for Himself from among mankind. And it is
remarkable, that after Eve had sinned, the first Adam deliberately followed her
in sin in order to be lowered to her fallen level – rather than eternally be
separated from her – for so great was his love for her! (I Tim. 2:13-15) BUT –
the LAST ADAM deliberately OVERCAME sin, Satan and death in the flesh – so that
He could take His fallen Bride and redeem her and LIFT HER BACK UP to His
DIVINE LEVEL of glory and God-like-ness! So great was His love for US! And
Christ, by becoming man, and FOREVER (in His glorified human body) taking upon
Himself the identity of humanity, has chosen to cleave only unto HIS
WIFE! And they are ONE FLESH, yea, one SPIRIT! So, in referring to the
prophetic statement of Adam, Paul concludes, “For this cause shall a man leave
His father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be
one flesh. This is a great mystery: BUT I SPEAK CONCERNING CHRIST AND THE
CHURCH! The TRUE HUSBAND that Adam spoke of is CHRIST. And the TRUE WOMAN he
spoke of is the BRIDE of Christ!
You will re-call that when God
separated Eve from Adam, God separated the reproductive organs of mankind. God
left with Adam the LIFE GIVING organs and in the woman He placed the organs for
MATURING LIFE, causing it to grow and eventually bring forth a new creature.
What a glorious picture this is of Christ and His Bride! They shall bring forth
a “seed” and that seed is the fulness of the Christ-life which is planted in
the womb of the Bride of Christ as a divine “seed.” She then nurtures that
life, causing it to grow and bring forth a new creature in the exact image of
GOD! This new spiritual creature is those who grow up into FULL SONSHIP to the
Father.
THE SEED OF THE WOMAN – THE SONS OF GOD!
With this truth in mind, it is
clearly evident that when God promises that there shall be a “seed” of the
woman who shall bruise the “head of the serpent,” He is speaking of the divine
seed that shall come forth from the union of Christ and His Bride.
But let us go back for a moment and
begin again from the beginning. Adam and Eve made their great mistake in
obeying the voice of Satan instead of their creator, but God in His mercy and
compassion did not leave them in a hopeless condition but gave a promise that
the seed of the woman should bruise the serpent’s head (Gen. 3:15), and
thereby bring deliverance to His disobedient people. The conflict was on, the
battle began, and century after century it continued with Satan seemingly
getting every advantage. The very thoughts and intents of Man’s heart becoming
more and more wicked and more and more subjected to Satan as the centuries
rolled by. Throughout this God continued to deal with man on the basis of
divine love and compassion, from time to time sending them righteous men to
lead them back to Himself; reminding them periodically by His word given
through His prophets of the promise of the “seed of the woman” that was to
bruise Satan’s head, dethrone him from his place of power and authority and
dominion and restore that which had been lost.
The Lord made a covenant with
Abraham, Isaac and Jacob that of their seed one would come who would be a
blessing to all the families of the earth. In due time the fulfillment of this
promise to Abraham came according to God’s predestined plan and a virgin was
overshadowed by the Holy Spirit and was about to bring forth a son (not
conceived by sin-cursed man) and her son made a way for a full deliverance of
mankind from the power and dominion of Satan. Isaiah
Let us turn now to Revelation
chapter 12, that most wonderful symbolic revelation of God’s purpose and plan
for the days that are just ahead of us. “And there appeared a great wonder in
heaven; a woman clothed with the sun, and the moon under her feet, and upon her
head a crown of twelve stars: And she being with child cried, travailing in
birth, and pained to be delivered. And there appeared another wonder in heaven;
and behold a great red dragon… and the dragon stood before the woman which was
ready to be delivered, for to devour her child as soon as it was born. And she
brought forth a MAN-CHILD, who was to rule all nations with a rod of iron: and
her child was caught up to God and to His Throne. And there was war in heaven:
Michael and his angels (messengers) fought against the dragon; and the dragon
fought and his angels, and prevailed NOT; neither was their place found any
more in heaven. And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the
Devil, and Satan… And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, NOW IS COME
SALVATION, and strength, and the Kingdom of our God, and the power of His
Christ: for the accuser of OUR BRETHREN is cast down, which accused them before
God day and night. And THEY OVERCAME HIM by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word
of their testimony…”
Some would tell us that the woman in
this chapter is Mary, or
The Bride is referred to as a woman
in the scriptures. Her characteristics are those of the female, or feminine.
She is never referred to as a male CHARACTER. But the child BORN OUT of this
woman, the Bride, is referred to as a man-child, a son, a male child, or a
masculine child, one which is of MASCULINE character. I have wondered for years
why so many Bible students call this masculine company the “Bride of Christ.”
This distinctly masculine company corresponds with the MANIFESTED SONS OF GOD,
who the scriptures DECLARE are going to liberate all groaning creation
according to Romans 8:20-23! While the Bride of Christ is God’s Elect in it’s
feminine relationship of love and submission to Christ, the MAN-CHILD, or the
Sons of God, are masculine in their spiritual nature and relationship to THE
FATHER. Their masculinity speaks of their great spiritual STRENGTH, AUTHORITY.
POWER AND DOMINION.
With this in mind, Rev. 12:1-12
gives us a very clear and definite picture of God’s method of dethroning Satan
from the heavenly realm. We have the symbol of the Spirit-anointed Bride of the
last days of this dispensation in the woman travailing in birth pains to be
delivered of a man-child who is to rule the nations with a rod of iron.
(For PROOF that Christ is not the one ALONE who will rule all nations with a
rod of iron, READ Rev. 2:26-27 &
Satan is so concerned about this
man-child that he tries to stop him from reaching the Throne of God (the place
of supreme power and authority), for he, Satan, knows that the test of his
ability to maintain his standing in the heavenlies is at hand. Now, the
important question is, BY WHOM will Satan and his host be defeated? The 11th
verse should settle this question for it is definite and clear. The warriors
who fought with Michael are described as “THEY (who) overcame him by the blood
of the Lamb, and the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives
unto the death.” Were these warriors then angel spirits, or were they redeemed
human beings? (For PROOF that the “angels” in the book of Revelation are not
angelic creatures of another creation, but are in fact MEN, see Rev. 22:8-9
where the “angel” who showed John all these things is a MAN – one of the
PROPHETS of GOD!) To be true to the Word, you must admit that they are a
company of saints redeemed by the blood of
Now let us turn to another
scripture. This gives us an enlarged vision of the work of dethroning Satan in
the EARTHLY realms. “All creation is yearning, longing to see the MANIFESTATION
OF THE SONS OF GOD. For the creation was made subject to futility, not of its
own choice, but by the will of Him who so subjected it; yet with the hope that
at last the Creation itself would be SET FREE from the thraldom of decay to
enjoy the liberty that comes with the glory (manifestation) of the
children of God. For we know that the whole creation is moaning in the pangs of
childbirth until this hour. And more than that, we ourselves, though we possess
the Spirit as a foretaste… yet we ourselves inwardly groan as we wait for FULL
SONSHIP in the redemption of our bodies” (Rom.
It is very evident from the above scriptures
that a blood-washed, FULL REDEMPTION company of saints are to be the means in
God’s hand in liberating the Creation from the bondage of death and corruption;
but BEFORE they can become liberators, they must first CONQUER HIM who has the
power of death, that is, the devil (Heb. 2:14). Just as Satan and his host were
overcome and cast out of the heavenlies. Even so must he be cast out of the
earthly realms by the instrumentality of a warrior company who will meet him in
the conflict of the ages, thus liberating all EARTHLY realms.
We have a very forceful reference to
this
CONCLUSION
The question is probably still
rising in some minds: “What company am I in? Which company of saints am I
apprehended for? Am I a part of the Bride or a member of the man-child company?
Which should I DESIRE to be? Can I be in BOTH? Is there REALLY a difference – a
separation – between the two?”
It is so easy to try and draw fine
lines. But what the revelation God is giving us in Rev. 12 REALLY MEANS is
THIS: The WAY to Sonship is Brideship! It is the realm of Brideship that
gives birth to the reality of Sonship. Jesus said, “I am the WAY, the truth and
the life; No man cometh UNTO THE FATHER but by Me.” Your relationship to
Jesus must come FIRST and your relationship to the Father in FULL SONSHIP shall
come SECOND. It is only through intimate fellowship and vital union with Jesus
that we will be enabled to move on into a full relationship with the Father and
the transcendent glory that will bring. If you have never really fallen in
love with Jesus – don’t expect to ever be a SON. If you have not made Jesus
your HEAD and submitted your whole life, will, thoughts and actions to HIS WORD
and HIS SPIRIT and HIM ALONE – then don’t ever expect to stand in full Sonship
to the Father! If you have any other love… master… Lord… any “reserved” areas
of your life… then you are one of the FOOLISH VIRGINS! We must first BOW in
feminine love and submission to Jesus – as a wife – before we can stand erect
in the majesty and splendor of Sonship. It is just that simple. There IS NO
OTHER WAY!
There are three companies.
The Harlot (apostate Babylonish religious system), the Bride and the Sons. Some
precious (but mistaken) people, because they have separated from some
Babylonish denomination or group mistakenly IMAGINE that this was the “mother
church” BIRTHING them into Sonship! That is WRONG! The “mother” of the
man-child is NOT THE HARLOT CHURCH but the perfected BRIDE OF CHRIST! When the
Spirit calls, “Come out of her My people,” He is not calling to Sons. He is
calling for a people to come out of the defilements of
J.
PRESTON EBY
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